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The good thing about bad incidences/disasters is that, they are never completely awful/bad, in that we get to learn from our mistakes while we also get experience, we learn to be grateful for what we have not yet lost as we appreciate their presence and we learn to hold on to what we have with much care. Meanwhile, the bad thing about good incidences/successes is that they are never completely good, with regards to the fact that over excitement can eventually result in forgetfulness. The one thing that would make an individual make senseless utterances and make really bad decisions just like a drunkard or probably a mentally insane person.

Life has always and continues to teach us that there’s something to always confront us with, just as time comes with progression and retrogression, there may be ups and downs. Most things do just happen because they have to, this may be due to some choices and actions taken in the past or what just must, sometimes they are deemed normal and most often they happen because we make them. Our own mentality and thinking brings to us what we frame should happen and that’s why our conscious thoughts become our words, which eventually develops into our actions, then our habits, through to our character and finally becoming our reality.

Therefore,  “Always Try To Have A Greater Part Of Your Thoughts And Perceptions About Things To Be Positive (As You Search)  And Keep A Positive Mentality All The Time.”

Strong winds, deadly tides, devastating earthquakes, epidemics and all the worrying and heart breaking situations in life do not necessarily mean the end of the line…

No matter how minute a problem may be in life, it always comes along side with a great cloud of darkness. This cloud of darkness as it is termed, is that which always strikes the mentality of every individual to start thinking negative with respect to the situation at hand. ‘ “I new it! All is lost!”, “Now that he is/she is/that is gone, it marks the beginning of my doom!!”, “All hopes are eventually lost for sure”, “There is no meaning to life without it/without him or her/without them!”,’ the negative conscience would exclaim. This negativity is that which shadow the mind’s eye to see the way out and the good side of the misfortune.

A coin has only two sides and it’s impossible for both sides to be on top at the same time, just one side at a time. So do every situation has a good and a bad side and so, it’s up to you to determine which side of the situation you want to see the most.  To every bad, there’s a good trapped deep down in it. Your perception about situations would draw down a conclusion concerning the prevailing situation at each point in time.

So whenever the bad situation arises, believe it and agree with yourself that,  “This Too Shall Pass, whether in thunder storms or lightenings, in illnesses or on the edge of death, sinking in failures and disappointments, engulfed by fear of the unknown and the impossibility mentality, I have power over my mentality and I see the greatness ahead although everyone might be looking down for my situation, I stand to look up at the greatness and brightness they’ve not seen, the brightness beyond the dark cloudy clouds of the sky, it looks bad but it’ll surely be better as this too shall pass!!!”

To every confusing question, there’s an equally good explanation for it.

To every argument/misunderstanding there’s a chance for clarification.

To every failure there’s acquisition of experience for guiding others.

To every success there’s a chance to lead others.

And to every bad situation, there’s a good side of it, just as a coin has two sides and seasons run according to successive days and nights, so be patient, look for the goodness in every situation, use it to your advantage rightfully and press on.

You are stronger than the deadliest and most frustrating situation you may encounter because you have in-store within you the will power to see the goodness in every situation, the power of thought and the zeal to persist and press forward with patience.

Therefore, “Train Your Being And Mentality To See The Good In Every Situation.”

Stay Graced And Blessed


Keep Up Learning.

Keep up learning than quitting even when things get tough.

Keep up learning and exploring different opportunities/chances than staying at one point and complaining of how bad situations may be.

Keep learning and improving yourself with added values than not. Values make you valuable.

Stay Graced And Blessed

Making A Difference.

Most often you must just believe in what your inner being tells you and head in a path you believe in, keep doing what the masses do not do and in the end you would make a difference.

Stay Graced And Blessed


Look Not But See.ย 

Look at life not just to look but to see it. 

If you try to look at life you may lose your attention but if you see life you would have your focus. 

See opportunities, don’t look at opportunities. 

Whatever opportunity within your reach that  you see, do justice to it. 

See life the way you envision it and live it the best way it may suit you considering other factors. 

It’s about your perception and how you see life. 

Stay Graced And Blessed


The Light In You…

Sometimes you just have to forgive yourself of all that right and good you could have done for others but never did and not repeat them again.
Pray for a chance to make things right someway somehow someday when the need arises. Seek for insight to be able to identify such opportunities to do good and be good at it. The chances to do good are always around and not distanced from us. 

It’s a real pain to think of all that right and good deeds that we could have done, but never did, especially when the outcome on the victims were overwhelmingly disastrous.

  • Do you remember that person you could have shouted out loud, “Hey! Watch your step!!” before he/she ended up on the ground or sustaining some serious injuries?
  • What about that individual you could have given guidance to on the upcoming task before it was a disaster for him/her?
  • How about that obstacle you could have put out of the path before someone got hurt? 
  • Recall those people you could have offered a bit of your time, money, compassion or even attention just to make them feel at home and valued? 
  • What of that person you refused to help when you clothed yourself with enough reasons to build an excuse? 
  • What of those things you could have done in the name of doing good, even though they weren’t that of a matter like positioning the door mat with the “welcome” inscription well? Just to mention a few… 

Refusal to ask for forgiveness from God (religiously) and inability to forgive oneself based on the conviction, “I will never forgive myself for what I did!” is a perilous self burial. Sometimes, the victims may not regard us as the cause of their failures, but, our own instincts would judge us, once it was in our ability to support them. 

To live in regret of all that have been done certainly doesn’t change anything, although we may deserve it to some extent. Forgive yourself for putting out the light in you, when you could have made it shine by doing good. 

Let the life you’ve lived before be a good teacher to you and do good.

  • Render to the poor and needy when it is in your ability to…. Do it in faith. 
  • Give a helping hand to those who need it knowing it would cost you nothing but just a bit of your precious time. 
  • Show them that defect even when it may be regarded as a minor.
  • Live everyday of your life doing good to remember in happiness than in regret. 

Let the light in you shine before all men all the time, forgive yourself of all that right and good you could have done but never did. 

Live in today and not in yesterday for it is in the past, and the past can only be made a pleasant place to visit in memory if we live our lives righteously, today. 

Stay Graced And Blessed 

All comments are welcome and if I missed out on anything, please let me know. 

Happy reading and sharing. 


Forgive Yourself.ย 


Happiness, A Choice.ย 


Allow The Flow.

The rivers, streams and water falls, are always and constantly flowing! Isn’t that just amazing!!? Always flowing and moving forward no matter what!? How exciting can that be??

Always moving forward and not backwards. 

  • Never look back but look to what lies ahead.

Depositing as much pollutants away as  far as possible. 

  • Forget the past hurts/disappointments as well as putting away anything that would clog your development and move forward.

Never ceasing to flow and watering all lands in its path. 

  • Never hold back any helping hand that can be given out to others if possible. 

Harbouring numerous creatures no matter how wild.

  • Be a blessing to many no matter how evil.

Just like the rivers, streams and water falls always and always allow the flow no matter what!!

Stay Graced And Blessed